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A Visioning Destination Retreat
for Women in midlife & beyond

Barefoot Perfect:
Barbados

Excited to Discover What's Next? It's Time to Reclaim Your Life!

with
Amy Ahlers & Sam Bennett

St. James, Barbados Dec. 9–14, 2026 Only 12 7 Spots Available

Claim Your Spot and Start Your Next Chapter Now

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Imagine… 21 superior oceanfront room club 92 X3

This could be
your next chapter.

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Lounging on your own private balcony overlooking the Caribbean — in a luxurious king size bed with plush pillows and soft sheets (and, yes, there is air conditioning).

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Relaxing in the gorgeous 3-tiered freshwater pool and freshwater jacuzzi.

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Finally getting the rest and inspiration you've been wanting AND the community & connection you deserve.

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Putting yourself first for once. Receiving expert mentorship and coaching to invent the next chapter of your life.

Join Amy, Sam and a small group (around 12) of inspiring, fun, hilarious women leaders on the travel adventure of a lifetime to create the next chapter of your life.

Here's the Deal

We're going to Barbados to discover the TRUTH about YOUR LIFE and WHAT'S NEXT.

We're gathering an intimate group of women to go on a destination retreat to Barbados to discover the magic, the mess, and more.

Clear Out

Any old lingering beliefs that are keeping you stuck. Let's smash that inner glass ceiling once and for all, shall we?

Dream Quest & Pleasure Dig

Get inspired for the next chapter. Unleash the voice of your wildest desires.

Be Frank

About disappointments, sexuality, pleasure, impostor syndrome, feeling selfish, and connect with our true desires to create an inspired action plan. Oh — and there's excursions to visit some wildlife, shopping, cocktails, and mocktails, too!

PLUS: Starting in September, we'll gather for an optional monthly online Coaching Salon where we can get to know each other better and start setting the stage for some deep transformational conversations.

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Ocean front suite view at The Club Barbados

Barefoot Perfect: Belize

Your Accommodations

You'll stay in your own, private
Superior Ocean Front or Garden Suite.

No need to bring earplugs to drown out the snoring of your beloved or roommate. This room is just for you! Think casual, luxury, white-sheet therapy with this view.

NOTE: The Club is adults-only. Cue the blessed silence.
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100% of our alumni say they would recommend our retreats to a friend.

Can't ask for higher praise than that…

"Midlife is when the universe gently places her hands upon your shoulders, pulls you close, and whispers in your ear: 'I'm not screwing around. All of this pretending and performing — these coping mechanisms that you've developed to protect yourself from feeling inadequate and getting hurt — has to go. Your armor is preventing you from growing into your gifts… Time is growing short. There are unexplored adventures ahead of you. You can't live the rest of your life worried about what other people think. You were born worthy of love and belonging. Courage and daring are coursing through your veins.' You were made to live and love with your whole heart. It's time to show up and be seen."
Brené Brown
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Barefoot Perfect: Crete

What You Can Expect

Transformation

Now is YOUR time for graceful transformation.

No matter where you've been, it's never too late to create the life of your dreams and make the contribution you long to make.

No matter how many books you buy or workshops you go to… your old patterns are right there waiting for you.

No matter how many zeros on the left side of the decimal point… you still feel scarcity.

No matter how many times people tell you you're gorgeous… you just can't quite believe them.

The feeling that YOU are SPECIAL and that you are destined for an extraordinary life is not the exclusive province of the young. It's never, ever too late to create the life of your dreams and make the contribution you long to make.

We have some amazing methods to help you uncover the voice of your inner knowing and inner wisdom, connect with your high-vibe self, and unleash the voice of your wildest desires. PLUS we have the know-how and experience to create the feel-good action plan to bring your dreams to life.

You wouldn't mind getting back some of your…

~Confidence

~Sex Appeal

~Life Force

~Enthusiasm

~Connection

~FUN!!

We're not about "accomplishment" but previous Barefoot clients have:

Bought their dream home (the big Victorian on the corner!)
Sought — and found — the love of their life
Gotten peacefully and lovingly divorced
Wrote books (4 newly published authors among alumni!)
Joyfully changed careers & made lifelong friends
Cleared old, self-sabotaging patterns & created real-life miracles

We live in a time of unprecedented opportunity for women in mid-life.

And while that's exciting, it also means that WE DON'T HAVE A MAP for what our life journey could look like from here on out.

We don't have any model for what the next 10, 20, 50 years or more of our lives are supposed to look like.

Guess what? You get to create whatever the hell you want! But even that freedom can feel overwhelming and confusing.

Amy and Sam are experts at helping smart people get:

Clarity about what they really want — no "shoulds" allowed
Insights into what's been holding them back for so long — and the spiritual remedy needed
Creative Rocket Fuel to change what needs changing — immediately

You've paid your dues in full, my dear, and it's time to cash in to create the most epic chapter of your life yet.

Dream and vision with us and a potent circle of women. Commune with your Inner Wisdom and create a plan that's right for YOU.

Who is Barefoot Perfect for?

Barefoot Perfect is for you if…

  • You want the ideal mix of lounging, adventure, laughter, and HELLS YES transformation
  • You are longing for real talk with authentic, like-minded women
  • You want a place where you can tell the truth and let your hair down
  • You love to enjoy fresh, delicious food (no dishes to wash)
  • You long to have unstructured time to connect to your Inner Wisdom
  • You want to have deep conversations while lounging by the sea (away from your everyday life is where you can really dream!)
  • You want to hang out with Amy & Sam, two expert teachers who feel like good girlfriends and will tell you the truth — no matter what
  • You would love a delicious spa treatment (mmmmm…)
  • Your idea of fun is seeing the beauty of a country like Barbados with the perfect combo of togetherness, sunbathing, solo time, visioning, and dreaming what's next for your precious life
  • You can't wait to tell people, "What's up with me? Well, I am going to Barbados in December…" *hair toss*

Barefoot Perfect is NOT for you if:

  • You want to sit in silent meditation and drink kale juice and do yoga 18 times per day. (Just kidding — of course there will be time for that — but we're more about walking barefoot on the beach and having drinks with pineapple in them… we don't care much for deprivation and austerity.)
  • You want to stay in another cold, anonymous hotel conference room all day, never enjoying the destination, and coming home with a pile of notes you'll never look at again (no thank you — we like action and fun!)
  • You want guru-like leaders that you worship and who want you to live tweet the event for their followers (yeah… we're not really into that)

You'll leave with:

  • A feeling of deep rest & soul-level renewal
  • A new, deeper self-compassion for your disappointments, embarrassments, and even your "failures"
  • A true celebration of what an accomplished, wise, sexy, badass woman you are
  • A vision for the next chapter of your life and a custom-made action plan to get you there
  • Relationships with women that will become lifelong friends and champions
  • AND SO MUCH MORE!
What Our Alumni Say

Don't take our word for it.

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A Deep Sense of Peace and Acceptance
"Not only did I have a blast, but I shed a persistent ache that has been with me since I can remember, and I gained a deep sense of peace and acceptance. I cannot begin to describe how good it feels to no longer be walking around with this 'pain body.' Sam and Amy even provided an anchoring experience, so I know exactly how to get back to my sweet spot. Very grateful. Highly recommend!"
— Robin Colucci
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One of My Best Decisions
"This decision to go on a retreat with women that I didn't know was one that I will remember as being one of my best decisions. What I got was what I needed: a little coaching, a little community, a little beauty, and some lasting friendships. The experience opened up the opportunity to delve, discover and decide how I want the next 25 years of my life to look. Thank you Sam and Amy."
— Lesley Bohm
Robin Colucci
I Feel as If I Have Awakened a Part of Me that Has Been Long Buried
"At the Retreat, something magical did happen! I'm living proof. Joy, gratitude, deep emotion – feeling as if I am beginning to truly live!"
— Carmelita Jimenez
Lesley Bohm
Rejuvenating; Enlightening; Empowering
"I love the gift of friendship I received at Barefoot Perfect. Hearing what other women struggle with and learning the truth behind assumptions we make about each other was empowering."
— Dana Brooks
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I Feel Calm, Relaxed, and Powerful
"I created space to allow my vision to come in. I've attended a lot of retreats and programs and it was so nourishing to be with Amy!"
— Jill Wesley
Laura Palmer
I Loved Every Minute of It
"Fun. Insightful. Caring. Amy and Sam are rockstars who care. Everything was very well thought out. I appreciated having my mornings to myself and all the downtime. Congratulations on a fantastic week!!"
— Laura Palmer
Our Schedule

Your 6 days in Barbados,
day by day.

Wednesday, Dec 9th
Arrivals, Opening Circle & Welcome Dinner

Arrive into Grantley Adams International Airport and grab a cab to The Club (about 20–30 minutes and that's the last time you'll have to take out your wallet on this trip!). Settle in, unpack into your very own Superior Oceanfront Room with Private Terrace, and enjoy an Opening Circle and Welcome Dinner overlooking the sea.

Thursday, Dec 10th
Morning Workshop & Afternoon Spa Treatments

Dive into our first exclusive retreat workshop to help you uncover the next steps in co-creating your desired life. Lunch as a group, then the afternoon is yours — enjoy your complimentary 60-minute treatment at the spa (facial or massage — your choice), lounge on the beach, or relax on your private terrace or king sized bed.

Friday, Dec 11th
Morning Workshop & Oistins Friday Night Fish Fry

After breakfast, we deep-dive into creating your future. Late afternoon we travel 25 minutes to Oistins Fishing Village for shopping, browsing, music, dancing, and the Legendary Friday Night Fish Fry — freshly caught mahi-mahi, flying fish, tuna, marlin, or lobster cooked right in front of you with classic Bajan sides.

Saturday, Dec 12th
Morning Workshop & Private Sailing Adventure

After breakfast, we continue our work together in circle — depth, honesty, and action. Then off to a private sail: swimming with wild sea turtles and snorkeling a real shipwreck in crystal-clear waters. Lunch and drinks on board included. Dinner on your own tonight — but we might meet up for a piano bar sing-along!

Sunday, Dec 13th
Final Workshop, Closing Ritual & Farewell Dinner

Our last morning workshop, then one last afternoon to relax — maybe an extra spa treatment or time at the beach. This evening we come together for our Closing Ritual and a celebratory farewell dinner by the water with wonderful food and live music.

Monday, Dec 14th
Depart Barbados

We bid farewell to The Club and the island of Barbados feeling refreshed, recharged, and renewed in our sense of purpose. No need to be too sad — we'll have our specialized "re-entry" Zoom session soon after our return.

About the Food

Outstanding cuisine,
every single meal.

The Club Barbados is an all-inclusive resort — meaning once you arrive, you don't need to take out your wallet again. All meals, snacks, and drinks (alcoholic and non-alcoholic) are included throughout your stay.

Barbadian cuisine is a blend of African, Indian, and British influences. Think fresh seafood, tropical fruits, and vibrant spices. You'll dine at multiple restaurants on property, each with its own personality and view.

All-Inclusive Dining

Multiple restaurants on property, room service, and all beverages included. Fresh, local ingredients showcasing the best of Bajan cuisine.

Welcome & Farewell Dinners

Special group dinners to open and close our retreat together — curated menus, ocean views, and live music to set the tone.

Oistins Fish Fry

The legendary Friday Night Fish Fry: fresh mahi-mahi, flying fish, tuna, marlin, or lobster cooked right in front of you with classic Bajan sides.

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Barefoot Perfect: Manhattan Beach

Why Barbados?

First, doesn't it just sound cool to say "I'm heading off to Barbados?"  **hair toss**

The Destination

Discover Barbados.

Barbados is a vibrant, independent island nation in the Caribbean known for stunning white-sand beaches, rich history, and the distinct Bajan culture. It is the easternmost island in the Lesser Antilles — outside the hurricane belt — and offers world-class snorkeling, fabulous food, irresistible dance music, and a friendly, laid-back vibe.

The birthplace of rum, Rihanna, the grapefruit, and Muscovado sugar — this small island offers Barefoot Perfect's signature balance of cultural interest, fun, and deep, soulful rest.

Swim with Wild Sea Turtles

A privately guided day on the calm sea — swim with wild sea turtles and explore a sunken shipwreck before anchoring for a Bajan lunch on board.

Explore Holetown

The vibrant coastal city of Holetown offers fantastic food, shopping, and rich history — one of the island's most storied and charming destinations.

Water Sports & Leisure

Complimentary kayaks, stand-up paddleboards, Hobie cats, water hammocks, and snorkel equipment — or simply lounge in the shade with a cocktail.

Nightly Entertainment & Piano Bar

The Club features nightly live entertainment AND a piano bar. We love a good sing-along. (Sweet Caroline, anyone??)

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Barefoot Perfect: Mallorca

The Venue

Why The Club on
St. James Beach?

Your Hosts

Why Amy and Sam?

We are bestselling authors, coaches, speakers and no-BS mentors with over 35 years of combined coaching, leading, and group facilitation experience. We are especially passionate about working with powerful women and highly creative people in transition.

PLUS:

  • We have 25+ years of friendship (my goodness, how time flies!)
  • From "just dreaming" of writing books to becoming traditionally published and award-winning bestselling authors
  • From broke "starving artists" to multi-six figure business owners
  • We've walked with each other through the heartaches of life: breakups, divorces, miscarriages, illness and other disasters
  • And we've walked with each other during the joys of life: marriages, babies, TV appearances, book deals, awards, rockstar events (that $128k weekend!), multi-six figure online program launches, speaking in front of thousands and so much more

We've led Barefoot Perfect Retreats all over the world:
-Belize (twice!)
-Crete
-Mallorca
-Southern California
-Barbados!!

And so far, 100% of our alumni say they would recommend Barefoot Perfect to a friend. #winning

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That's Amy and Sam under a waterfall during Barefoot Perfect: Belize retreat

Amy and Sam cracking each other up at a private retreat in Los Angeles

And here we are cracking each other up at a private retreat in Los Angeles…

Coaching & Mentorship

With over 25 years each of coaching, mentoring and facilitation experience, Sam and Amy will knock your tankini off with their expertise.

These women are the perfect blend of spiritual (not too woo), direct (with kindness) and mama bear love. You'll receive special "love seat" time to receive 1:1 coaching, as well as proven exercises to take your life to the next level.

Collectively, Amy and Sam have facilitated over 85 multi-day retreats, events and workshops in such varied environments as Google, Harvard University, HOW Design Conference, US Naval Medical Center, Wisdom 2.0 as well as a zillion of their own private events in places like Los Angeles, San Francisco, New York City, Hawaii, Switzerland, and Mexico.

In addition to the daily workshop time during our trip (featuring our time-tested worksheets, revealing exercises and exclusive processes), Sam and Amy are also offering a BONUS of an online Monthly Coaching Salon (value: $3,000) where we can start looking at the deeper questions that will lead us to a better life.

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Meet Your Co-Host

Amy Ahlers

Amy Ahlers is an expert women's leadership coach, keynote speaker, and the bestselling author of Big Fat Lies Women Tell Themselves (New World Library, 2011) and Reform Your Inner Mean Girl (Simon and Schuster/Beyond Words, 2015). Amy is on a mission to STOP women from self-bullying and being so darn hard on themselves so they can make their greatest possible contribution.

After being a top producing sales executive, she entered the world of coaching two decades ago and has touched the lives of over 150k people. She is the host of the celebrated Amy Ahlers Show podcast, and has been a featured keynote speaker on stages at places like Google and Oracle and has appeared on countless TV and radio shows.

Most mornings you'll find Amy meditating on her front porch after doing a dance party in the kitchen (with a pile of dirty dishes in the sink). She resides in the San Francisco Bay Area with her family and rescue mutt, Auggie.

Sam Bennett
Meet Your Co-Host

Sam Bennett

Originally from Chicago, Samantha Bennett is a beloved writer, speaker, actor, teacher and creativity/productivity specialist. She is the author of the bestselling Get It Done: From Procrastination to Creative Genius in 15 Minutes a Day (New World Library), which Seth Godin called "An instant classic, essential reading for anyone who wants to make a ruckus."

Her next bestseller was the beloved Start Right Where You Are: How Little Changes Can Make a Big Difference for Overwhelmed Procrastinators, Frustrated Overachievers and Recovering Perfectionists (New World Library).

Her 2024 book, The 15-Minute Method: The Surprisingly Simple Art of Getting It Done (New World Library) was short-listed for an Outstanding Work of Literature Award by the prestigious BookPals organization. (Psssst... she also ghost-wrote a book that is on the USA Today Bestseller list and the LA Times Bestseller list!)

She is an award-winning marketing expert, having spent 15 years as a Personal Branding Specialist at Sam Christensen Studios. She's known for her quick wit, profound compassion, and unerring intuition.

What Does My Registration Cover?

Simply get yourself to The Club in Barbados and...

We'll take care of the rest!

The Barefoot Perfect: Barbados retreat price is all-inclusive for your accommodations, excursions, transformative sessions, and most of your meals.

Your registration includes:

  • Exclusive custom-designed workshops with Amy & Sam to clear your mind & create your future
  • Your own Superior Oceanfront or Garden View Room with Private Terrace or Balcony (First come, first served)
  • Sumptuous meals featuring local flavors and spirits
  • An exclusive excursion on the water: swimming with sea turtles, snorkeling a shipwreck, plus a fresh lunch and yummy drinks
  • All-inclusive plan: three meals daily, afternoon tea, beverages (alcoholic and non-alcoholic), water sports, swimming pools, tennis, fitness centre, evening entertainment, and seasonal activities. Room service available at additional charge.
  • 60-minute massage or facial spa treatment of your choice so your tension melts away…
  • Complimentary wi-fi and housekeeping gratuities

PLUS these AWESOME bonuses:

  • Bonus Monthly Virtual Group Coaching Salon starting in September with Amy, Sam, and an amazing circle of women — three group sessions total. (Value: $3,000… yours free!)
  • One Post-Retreat Group Coaching Integration Call with Amy & Sam (Value: $500… yours free!)
Investment

Investment for this life-changing,
epic adventure + 6 months of group coaching:

You deserve it!

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$7,498
Save $500 off full price (payment plans available)
Still a great deal. Enroll by July 16th to claim this rate.
  • 5 nights at The Club Barbados (all-inclusive)
  • All workshops & group sessions
  • Welcome & Farewell Dinners
  • Private Sailing Adventure with lunch & drinks
  • Complimentary 60-min spa treatment
  • 3 Pre-retreat Monthly Coaching Salons
  • Post-retreat Integration Zoom Call
Full Price
$7,998
Available through Oct 1st
Full investment. Enroll any time before October 1st while spots remain.
  • 5 nights at The Club Barbados (all-inclusive)
  • All workshops & group sessions
  • Welcome & Farewell Dinners
  • Private Sailing Adventure with lunch & drinks
  • Complimentary 60-min spa treatment
  • 3 Pre-retreat Monthly Coaching Salons
  • Post-retreat Integration Zoom Call
Submit Your Application →

Airfare, airport transfer, travel insurance, and personal spending not included. Spots are extremely limited — only ~12 women per retreat. 7 Spots left.


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Amy & Sam at Barefoot Perfect: Mallorca

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Barefoot Perfect: Belize

Have a Question?

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I bring my kids?
Nope. This is a kid-free experience. (Yep. You're welcome.) Amy's a mama to two and Sam's an auntie to two, but it's time for adults-only conversations that don't get cut off every three minutes. Also, The Club is adults (16+) only.
Can I bring my spouse/partner/friend?
If your spouse/partner/friend identifies as a woman, and you don't mind sharing your luxurious king-sized bed with them, then yes. Contact us for their registration fee (which is a small discount). If you don't want to share a bed, just have your pal register separately.
I want to extend my trip and see more of the Caribbean… can you help me?
We recommend you contact a trusted travel agent to help you extend your trip before or after the retreat. Amy might hit up Curaçao, Sam might venture to the Grenadines… why not? There is so much to see and explore! Once you enroll, reach out to your favorite travel agent to get expert wisdom and guidance.
I'm vegan/gluten-free/paleo/omnivorous/addicted to dark chocolate… can you accommodate my food needs?
Yes. We will do everything we can to make sure you have plenty of delicious food, three meals a day. We have some pretty serious food restrictions ourselves, so we totally get it. (Remember, too, that you'll be abroad, so you may need to practice being a little bit flexible.)
I'm self-conscious about my body and I don't feel comfortable in a swimsuit…
Honey, your body is so beautiful! We notice that no matter how uncomfortable we might feel in our day-to-day world, once we're floating in the clear blue sea, we start to remember the sanctified beauty of our physical selves. It is our express purpose to have you feeling great no matter what you are wearing. Please do your delightful self a favor and get yourself a new swimsuit that fits, grab your flip-flops and prepare to fall in love with your body all over again. She's your one and only body this time around — might as well love her up!
What if I want to use this as a writing/creative project retreat?
Sure. You'll have unscheduled time each day to do whatever you like. Imagine putting the final touches on your novel or creative project while lounging in Barbados. That said, please do plan on being present at all of our workshop sessions.
This may sound weird, but I'm concerned that my aging/ill parent/animal companion might pass away while I'm gone.
That's not weird at all — it is a perfectly valid concern. And it is true that sometimes the people and animals we love will actually wait for us to be gone so they can slip away. We are here for you in joy and in grief, no matter what happens. Remember, life is for living. Please check in with your inner wisdom — she will never steer you wrong.
I identify as non-binary, gender non-conforming, and/or am a trans woman… is this retreat for me?
If you identify as a woman, or are non-binary or gender non-conforming, and feel good about being in circle at a women's retreat, we welcome you with open arms!
How are you handling Covid/flu/RSV… all the things?
Your safety is of utmost importance. We will follow all mandated health protocols in place at the time of the retreat. In the unlikely event that things take a turn for the worse, we would look at moving the retreat dates. We also strongly, strongly suggest getting trip insurance on the off chance that you can't make it or there are unforeseen circumstances. Tamara, our retreat concierge goddess, will assist you and send you options so your investment is protected.
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Ready to Join Us?

Application Process

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Submit Your Application

If you're a YES or even a MAYBE, the next step is to simply submit your no-obligation application. The application is short, easy and fun. Just filling out the application itself will spark some valuable insights into fabulous you. (And there is a spot where you can tell us if you're "just dreaming" — so don't worry that you'll be pressured to attend if the actual event is out of reach.)

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We Personally Review Every Application

We want to ensure that we take only "perfect fit" women on the Barefoot Perfect: Barbados adventure. After all, we will be spending 6 days in paradise with you — so we want to make it a phenomenal, life-changing experience for us all. If we have questions, we may reach out to schedule a short, private interview to get to know you better.

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If You're Accepted, You'll Receive an Official Letter of Acceptance

And you can move forward immediately reserving your spot. We will also be available to answer any questions you have. (Remember, our retreats sell out quickly, so be sure to reserve your spot with your deposit the moment you're accepted.)

If we don't feel like this retreat is the right fit for you, we will reach out with some suggestions for other best next steps.

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Your Next Chapter Begins Here

It's time to show up
and be seen.

Join us December 9–14, 2026 in Barbados. An intimate group of 12 women, ready to discover what's next — together.

Apply now

Spots are extremely limited. Applications reviewed in the order received.